Proverbs Study, Chapter 4
Let’s take a look at Proverbs 4:23-27 from the Message Bible. It says,
“Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that’s where life starts. Don’t talk out of both sides of your mouth; avoid careless banter, white lies, and gossip.
Keep your eyes straight ahead; ignore all sideshow distractions. Watch your step, and the road will stretch out smooth before you. Look neither right nor left; leave evil in the dust.”
In all of chapter 4, this is what stood out to me the most because I absolutely can’t stand gossip and people who lie. I try to teach my children that even a tiny lie is just as bad as a huge lie. It’s all sin! I’m not perfect by any means and I sometimes find myself saying things to other people that I realize later I probably shouldn’t have said. I then have to repent, asking God to forgive me and then I have to make things right with the one whom I was talking about. When we are talking about other people, to other people in a non-edifying way, it’s gossip.
As Christians we are called to build each other up, not tear each other down. When you go behind someones back and you are talking about them, you are tearing them down. Even if they don’t know about it!
Let’s focus on how God tells us to live in these verses! Keep your eyes straight ahead; ignore all sideshow distractions. When someone starts talking about someone else, RUN in the other direction! Okay, maybe not run, but make up some excuse that you need to leave and then get out of there as fast as you can. I’m trying to practice this more and more. I know a lot of people don’t even realize they are gossiping. But when I recognize it, I become very uncomfortable because I know it displeases God.
Continue to keep your eyes on God and turn away from evil and He will make your path smooth and wide!